Boost A Person’s Sense Of Importance

With many people, there is a distinct need to feel important.

Without this feeling fulfilled, a person often suffers from self-doubt, guilt, insecurity and low self-worth.

Those same people will go to great lengths to maintain a good reputation, or to demonstrate that they are needed, or to gain a bit of self-esteem, or to prove their superiority, or to show that they're right, or even to meet a challenge presented to them.

If you diplomatically satisfy these areas to such ego-oriented people, you become master over any situation with them.

Their emotional mind loves it, and their logical mind is suspended.

As a daily exercise, exhibit a little thought when you handle your next people situation, and see how well it works.

For example: To a boss that normally reprimands you: "If it wasn't for your astute judgment, the efficiency of the company certainly wouldn't be as high. It sure is fortunate that you keep everyone on their toes."

To a lover or spouse going through a bout of negativity: "You're the best example I know of someone doing the best he can in any situation.

Therefore I know that whatever decision you make, it'll be a good one.

As a further exercise, work with a friend and alternate with each other on skillful, ego-boosting remarks based on the principles outlined above.

In actual situations, they will work wonderfully, and they will seem a lot less artificial.

You'll be delighted and surprised.